Monday, February 2, 2015

WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES BY SHERRY ARGOV....A PRE REVIEW

Why Men Marry Bitches....Book of the Month
Hey guys, it is a new month and it is time for another book....yay! The next book i am reading is called 'Why men marry bitches by Sherry Argov'. Sounds nasty , right?....lol. I got this book late last year (i think). I was really intrigued when i saw the 'bitches word' and the fact that it was being sold in my church's bookshop made me really curious. How can it be sold in the Church? So when i had the cash to buy it, i bought it.


I just started it but i can clearly see what the writer was trying to accomplish. She said she was not going to hold back the punches and my God, she didn't. She is so straight to point more like too blunt. I have only read the introduction and the first chapter and i have realised so many of my mistakes.

The book kinda of reminds me of 'Think like a man, act like a lady by Steve Harvey'. They say it as it is. The first chapter makes you realise that you need to be happy for yourself and by yourself. That you should not think that happiness comes from Marriage or a guy. She tries to make you realise that being true to yourself and not acting the way someone expects you to is the only way to be happy.

Reading it made me remember all the mistakes i made in the past. It is official! I totally messed up! I allowed the 'Nigerian' or the standard mentality of what a good girlfriend or wife should do even when it was obvious that the guys were (for a better lack of words) 'Shitheads' (i think i just heard that word in a movie....lol). Okay, let me be serious, i have been with some people who were not really nice to me. But from what she wrote, i realised that i caused it. I acted up and they decided that i was....what did she call it...something about 'short term only'. I might not have done all what she mentioned but i saw myself in some of what she said.

But hey we learn everyday, right? I have said i don't regret any of my relationships because i hope i learned something from it. And i hope i can one day help someone not make the same mistakes i have made. The way i see it my adventures have only helped me be a better woman for the man i eventually choose to marry....*dustingmyshouldershiphopstyle*...lol

Anyway the book has 7 long chapters so i might split each chapter into two so that i can finish it by February 14 (Valentine's day or for Nigerians the day to start changing our country). I do hope that when i finish the book i am more than better for it.

Well guys, that is all for now. It seems that the strike has been called off.....*cue crying mode*..... I don't want it to be overrrrrrrr. I want to watch telemundo oooooooo and bake my cakes and try out my experiments.....*wailing*...lol. Anyway that is what we heard but no official text has been sent but i should be getting by butt back to Uyo very soon. I need to clean up my house, i don't even want to think of what state my house would be in right now. I just hope thngs still look nice and liveable...lol.

Thanks for stopping by.

Luv ya,
Petite Diva...

4 comments:

  1. Hahah sounds like a fun book!
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  2. I have seen this book alot but never thought of it beeing so interesting. I will look out for it.
    Oya go back to school *chasing you with a broom* lol
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